MANY western men are now flocking to online international dating sites to date Russian women.
According to an email I sent to one international dating site, there were over 80, 333 UK men currently using that site to find an Eastern European beauty.
But why exactly are so many western men, including men from the UK, resorting to finding their love abroad?
These are the reasons.
Many Russian/Ukrainian women are virtuous women who have old-fashioned views on the role of the woman in the family and in society. That's not to say they want to stay at home 24/7 and look after babies, and cook meals, but it appears their view on family is well grounded with what some feminists over here might call "old-fashioned" male chauvinism - coming from a woman.
Russian women also do not like the type of men who live in their own country - often out of work drunks, according to some women on there.
One woman who emailed me told me she had been in a relationship where the guy had been beating her due to being a drunk. Another was looking for a family oriented man as her family had died at an early age. Most are 19, and I suppose are looking for a father figure...
WESTERN MEN AND THEIR DESIRES TO DATE RUSSIAN WOMEN
Some Western men are looking for a woman who is old fashioned, virtuous, and intelligent and very beautiful, and they are looking for a different type of package from the ones in their own country. So what's wrong with women from the UK?
Well, I feel it's these...
Some women from the UK have forgotten the importance of family, and the importance of relationships. Some UK women are quite frankly "boring". UK women, particularly in their 20s - 30s, are either more interested in having a good time on the razzle on a Friday night, or are focused on a career.
That's not to say women aspiration is wrong, but to deny the very nature of our existence and why we are here is to deny why men and women were built "different" at all.
The so called growth of women's lib has made some men to feel shunned from their role in society. Maybe the flagging UK economy, and desperation of feeling part of something has also inspired more men to search further a field?
Although there is still lots of talk about gender inequality in politics, women in some arenas now are seen as the dominant species in society, and this is highlighted by the endless movies, books, and stories in the mainstream about how the girl is the one with the sole power in the dating game. That's why there has been a resurgence in male dating pick up artists of late.
If you are curious about this date Russian women international scene here's a few tips.
HOW TO DATE A RUSSIAN WOMAN
Dating a Russian woman can be fun online, but you can also get SCAMMED if you do not follow these important tips.
1) DO NOT GIVE PERSONAL INFO OUT TOO EARLY
This is a universal tip for online dating, but it stands to reason that if you start divulging your personal information someone will gain access to it who you didn't authorise it to. Be careful.
2) ASK TO CHAT TO HER ON SKYPE OR BY PHONE
Once you have exchanged up to five emalls, the way to find out if she is real or not is to ask to chat to her on Skype or by phone. There are ways to get cheap calls abroad by searching the internet and finding a cheap international call service. Just type it in Google and find the best one that suits you. Skype alternatively is FREE for video so use that. You will then find out if she is real or not. If she doesn't have Skype or doesn't want to chat then she is either a SCAMMER, or, is JUST NOT INTERESTED.
3) FIND OUT WHAT SHE REALLY WANTS FAIRLY EARLY
Most Russian women are online to find a husband, but there are a few who are just online to play around or to SCAM people from abroad. It is important that you find a reputable company that takes all the hassle out of finding a Russian woman and organise trips to the country of choice.
4) SEARCH AND DATE A RUSSIAN WOMAN SIMILAR TO YOU Don't date a
Russian woman that isn't in your league. Make sure she has the same values as you, has the same interests and has the same beliefs and desires as you. Search carefully and take your time.
5) MEET IN REAL LIFE ASAP
Many western men go online dreaming about love, but never actually take the plunge and try it out. As long as you are safe and have your wits about you and observe what's going on you will be fine. When you meet her in real life, dress well, learn some basic Russian phrases, and be confident in yourself and what you have to offer. You don't have to be rich, or good looking, but you have to be confident in yourself that you are good enough for her.
She will already like you if you have built up a rapport with her on Skype or by phone so it's likely she will not be bothered about the size of your wallet, or about whether you have a six pack or six pack Beer belly.
Finally, have fun, and go with the flow, but always have your wits about you when you date a Russian women!